Sample Love the One You’re With Book Club Questions
- Some of Dana’s friends urge loyalty, others pragmatically suggest going with the flow. How do their attitudes impact Dana and how do they reflect Christian morals? Which character’s advice do you agree with—and why?
- Under what circumstances can a Christian back out of a former commitment as serious as engagement?
- How do the Shakespearean characters referenced in the book reflect Dana’s real-life love story?
- What did Dana learn in London about herself and others that impacted her decisions?
- Which characters undergo the most change? What drives those transformations? Do you believe the changes will last?
- Compare the three (or more!) mother figures in the book and describe their role in her development.
- How does Dana ultimately decide which path to follow? Do you think she made the right choice? Have you ever had to make a similar choice—and were you content with the outcome?
- Which characters got their “just deserts” and which do you feel were wronged?
- What does the future hold for Dana? Other characters?
- Which character did you most identify with—or wish you were?